Well I found out I was pg, 11/04/05 by 11/09 I was bleeding, mind you I hadn't told a sole, not even my husband nor my 15 yr. son, so wed. came along I was bleeding not a lot but there was signs of blood, so I went to the doc, they sent me to the specialist,
Doc asked me a bunch of questions, as if it was my fault, I told him I was on birth control, and he had the nerve to say, “oh you complicated case” and that the pg was NO GOOD! He said I would be having a mc soon, by this point I had to tell my husband, my son, and of course work, I was put on bed rest for a wk, and had blood work done, the following Monday, my #'s came in and the doc said they didn't double as they were suppose to, but that we could do an u/s on 11/16/05, so we did and it turned out I had a 7 wk empty sac, no baby nothing just the sac, that’s when I lost it, he said okay were going to schedule you for a D & C, he also suggested a vaginal u/s, because I wasn’t willing to give up, I couldn’t believe this could be happening to me, I guess I always took it for granted, being able to have kids, with my first I had no problems, I was only 15 yrs. Old when I had my son, and everything was perfect, so I couldn’t believe what the doc was saying to me, he was so set on doing the D&C.
That's when I found this website, the women here suggested, I wait to let it pass naturally, they said NOT to have the D&C to have in come naturally, which I took their advice and decided to wait.
So the following week, I had my vaginal u/s, 11/23/05, turns out I was about 7 wk 4 days, I was excited and sad, all at the same time, all this time I thought I was miscarrying, he said “ HAPPY THANKSGIVING, this is what you wanted right”? He was confused I guess the look on my face said it all, I looked at the nurse and said I was here to have the D & C, I already had the approval and everything, and now it turns out I was pg. I was pissed off.
He said everything looked good; we were off by 2 wks.
BUT exactly a wk after I had my vag. u/s, I started to bleed again and this time it was more than the first time, so I went to see the doc on 12/05/05, and again he said oh your having a mc, I was so disappointed again because at this point I didn't even feel pg anymore, I never got the morning sickness, or any other signs that I was pg, till this day I have not gotten the morning sickness, which makes me kind of lucky I guess, I just wasn't feeling pg anymore, and I was devastated, because going from waiting to miscarry to finding out everything was ok, to waiting to miscarry again, I was on a roller coaster,
But he said he would do another u/s to see if the baby was actually growing and that I should take a month off of work, that I should come back in 2 wks when the approval for the 3rd u/s came in, he really thought I was miscarrying, well I couldn't wait that long I wanted it done ASAP, so 2 days later the approval came in, I went in the next day, on 12/09/05, had my 3rd u/s and it turned out good, he found a heart beat
and everything, turns out I’ll be 10 wks, pg tomorrow, I asked him what about the blood he said he didn't know where the bleeding came from but to ignore it,
So everything seems to be going ok,
I’m just waiting to pass my first tri to start announcing it to the world, I have 2 wks to go wish me luck !
For you women who are going through this my Prayers
are with you. This website really helped me. Keep the faith & be strong.
UPDATE: 12/27/05 - Today I am 12 wks 3 days, everything seems to be going great !
I still had one more incident where I bled 12/19/05, about a week after my 3 rd u/s, went to the doc and he said everything should be fine not to worry. So I guess some gals just bleed and I happen to be one of those gals. I guess I was always thought if you pregnant your NOT suppose to bleed…. that’s why I was so freaked out ~
UPDATE: MY LITTLE BOY WILL BE TURNING 5 YEARS OLD NEXT MONTH! WE'VE COME A LONG WAY. Please hang in there, there is always hope, don't give up. I pray and Thank this site for saving my little boys life. You ladies are amazing.