[quote="pucketts03"]Hello, I am new at this so bare with me. I have been reading everyone's story's on here and it sounds like there is more then just me that have problems with drs. My husband and I have been trying for 4 1/2 yrs now, we have had one miscarriage, a tube removed and have done clomid for about 6 months. In January we finally got pregnant again. So I call my fertility dr which is a specialist to let her know. She wanted to do blood work right away. So we did that on Jan 25, levels were low so she wanted to repeat, did it again on the 27th. Levels went up but didn't double. So she wanted to do another HCG level and see me for an VU. Did the blood work again, went up but didn't double, at the VU (2/5) she didn't see anything so she automatically thought ectopic. Wanted to see me again on the 8th. Went again for a VU and she saw nothing again. So of course she discussed our options. She wanted to look one more time so that was on the 11th. Saw a spot but didn't think it was anything, so she sent me to the hospital to have another VU to see what they saw. It was a fetal pole measuring about 5 weeks. So I was clear from an ectopic which was good because I can't afford to lose my other tube. So then of course she wanted me to come back for another VU to make sure that fetal pole was growing so went back on the 15th and it did grow to about a 6 1/2 week fetal pole. She is still thinking that since my HCG levels are not doubling and the fetal pole isn't growing like it should and she can't find the heartbeat yet that I am going to miscarry. So of course she wanted me to do a D/C. I refuse because I did not try all this time for them to take it away from me so fast. This week on 2/19, I woke up and had some brown spotting, so I called because I was freaking out and of course the only thing she could say was you are having a miscarriage. I just kind of blew it off because I wasn't having all the other signs of one. The brown spotting went away but came back again the next day. This time it seemed like it was a little bit more. When I got home from work I noticed that there was some blood in my underwear, so I put on a pad and just sat around the house waiting for it to happen. Nothing, the next morning there was brown again. I am still not having any cramps or a lot of blood to be concerned. I am to go back to her for another VU tomorrow and I am just praying that she finds a heartbeat so I can at least get the thought out of my head that I am going to miscarry any time now.
Has anyone had a similar situation if so please help. I don't know what to do or think. My husband is ready to punch the dr in the face because she keep telling us that we are going to miscarry.
I had the same thing went to the hospital and was told there was nothing in the uterus....empty as he put it. Followed up with my dr 2 days later on Monday and she does and U/s and there she was 6wks 1 day with a beautiful little
. I tell you what some of these dr's should just keep there mouths shut they really do not know any more than you or I. I fell really blessed that my dr has been so wonderful giving me progesterone for bleeding just in case and checking me and rechecking me. I am almost 29 weeks and we hope to welcome our little miracle into the world in early May!! Anything is possible ladies never loose hope! With god anything is possible! If you don't like your doctor find a new one!