I am somewhat going through the same thing, so as much prayer as i an get would be greatly appreciated. I went for first ultrasound yesterday. I was called back to my dr office. He gave me a preliminary report saying positive fetal demise. No fetal heartbeat. It also measure me at being6wk and 1 day. I thought I was only supposed to be 5w 5d. My dr told me to get d&c he didnt give me other options like miscarry on my own (which is my decision if it happens). He didnt order anymore test. He doesnt even have my blood work back yet to know my levels. From looking at this site, many women have had no fetal heartbeats till a week or so later. I am going to continue to pray and remain hopeful. If it still doesnt its ok, but I want to give this baby every chance I can.
Will request him send me for another ultrasound when he gets back from his conference. To see if there is any change in a wk or so. He didnt suggest another ultrasound till i looked at him like are you serious you not going to run anymore test or anything.
I spoke with the head sonographer at the place and she said that the baby measurements were fine, I just got pregnant sooner. He/she has a fetal pole, there just wasnt a heartbeat, but it would be a good idea to get another one in a wk or so and give it time to be sure there is nothing there. Im like im starting to feel more pregnant now. My breast hurt, I mean hurt and im so tired.
I do have cramping but I had that with my son and he is healthy. I wasnt going to keep him until i went in to have a medicine induced miscarriage and they found a heartbeat. Im like oh no I cant. Im just really hoping this little one holds on and doesnt give up cause mommys not giving up on this baby. Will continue with my prenatal meds and prayer.
Will keep you guys updated.
Thanks for the inspiration. I felt so hopeless before reading. Now I feel much better.